PRIVACY: As a rule, we will keep the information you share with us sessions confidential, unless we have your written permission to reveal certain information. There are, however, important exceptions to this rule that are important for you to understand before you share personal information with your therapist in a session.
WHEN WE CANNOT MAINTAIN PRIVACY: In some situations, your therapist is required by law or by the guidelines of our profession to disclose information without either your consent or authorization:
- You tell me that you plan to cause serious harm to yourself
- You tell me that you plan to cause serious harm or death to someone else
- You tell me that you or another young person is currently being physically, sexually and/or emotionally harmed
- You tell me that you or another young person has been physically, sexually and/or emotionally harmed in the past
You can always ask your therapist questions about the different types of information we would share.
COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR PARENT(S) OR GUARDIAN(S): Except for the situations mentioned above, your therapist will not share with your parent and/or guardian things you share with them in your private therapy sessions.
This includes activities and behavior they would not approve of –or would be upset by – but that do not put you at risk or serious and immediate harm. However, if I feel that you are in such danger, I will communicate this information to your parent or guardian.
- Example: If you tell me that you have tried alcohol at a few parties, I will keep this information confidential.
- Example: If you tell me that you are drinking and driving, I will not keep this information confidential.
- Example: If you tell me that you are engaging in sexual activity, I will keep this information confidential.
Even if I have agreed to keep information confidential – to not tell your parent or guardian – I may believe that it is important for them to know what is going on in your life. In these situations, I will encourage you to tell your parent/guardian and will help you find the best way to communicate with them.You should also know that, by law in both the states of New York and New Jersey your parent/guardian has the right to see any written records we keep about our sessions. It is extremely rare that a parent/guardian would ever request to look at these records.